[caption id="" align="alignnone" width="303" caption="Maybe Jason is reconsidering his third choice, Jillian."][/caption] Of course I have to comment on the "most dramatic finale ever" of The Bachelor. Just to recap what I've written about recent seasons of The Bachelor/ette: first we had Brad Womack, the tool who told the final two contestants that he could see each of them as his wife then he proceeded to dump both of them in the end. So then reject Deanna Pappas got her "second shot at love" and her final two choices were crazy snowboarder Jesse and divorced father Jason. She ...

On Monday's finale of The Bachelorette, a big deal was made over her suitors asking for her father's permission to propose to her, an archaic tradition I can't believe is still practiced. It made sense back in olden days when a marriage meant the loss of a good farmhand or butter churner but in today's age of food processors and women living on their own for a good while before marrying, it's rather insulting to the woman. Asking for the father's permission suggests that the father has control over his daughter's life and subsequently, the husband will be in control. Fuck that. I don't want anybody thinking he's the boss of me and ...